"Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura" (sundowne36)
01/28/2015 at 15:29 • Filed to: None
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"Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura" (sundowne36)
01/28/2015 at 15:29 • Filed to: None | 1
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I don't know why, but I am starting to get used to this, I guess. At least it was just a friendly break-up. An AventAdoor for your time.
Cherry_man1
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:32 |
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Hey man shit happens. Don't let it bother you.
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Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
> Cherry_man1
01/28/2015 at 15:32 |
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Ehh, I got used to it.
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Cherry_man1
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:33 |
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Then you wernt fully into the person then if its not phasing you.
Chris_K_F drives an FR-Slow
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:35 |
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Had two girls I've been talking to/gone out with lately tell me they didn't think we should keep seeing each other or whatever in the past 5 days. It sucks, but I just choose to look at it as more money for race car stuff!
Textured Soy Protein
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:35 |
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If it makes you feel any better, a coworker of mine's gf broke up with him via email while he was at his best friend's funeral.
thebigbossyboss
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:35 |
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Lost my engagement last year and know the feeling. Depending on how serious it was you gonna be sad for a few months or maybe just a few weeks. Have your sadness, try not to drink too much, and soon you'll be back on your feet.
Believe me man!
boobytrapsandtreasure
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:36 |
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It's going to happen many more times. And each time will hurt. It's part of the process. You'll be okay.
Sam
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:38 |
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Look on the bright side - More money for car parts!
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Sam
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:38 |
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Look on the bright side - More money for car stuff!
Raphmoe
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 15:43 |
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I spend more time online to get chicks, it works.
WesBarton89 - The Way to Santa Fe
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 16:21 |
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I've been there, it sucks. Sorry to hear, my man. I've been with my fiancee for close to 4 1/2 years now, and we've been close to the point of break up several times, and that itself is very difficult. You invest your time, money, feelings and emotions into someone, and they invest them back, and then just like that, all of that is gone, just chalked up to a lesson learned. And you learn something new from every relationship. I've learned a lot from mine, both current and past.
Don't fight your true feelings over the break up. If you're upset, admit it, don't hide it. Take a step back, assess the situation, find out what went wrong. It might not have been anyone's fault, could be that things just didn't work, and that happens, and you know what? It's totally, completely normal.
Now here's the thing, at least what I tell my friends who go through the same experiences. It hurts, cry if you need to, yell, talk to somebody, but don't retreat inside yourself. Don't mope and blame yourself, unless you did something critically stupid like cheating or physical violence. No need to wallow in self-pity if it didn't work. Relationships start and end every second of every day. Some don't last a week. Some last 50 years, and then end.
Don't be a serial dater, or run around hooking up. It's a temporary high, but not a long-term solution. Trust me, I know. I don't know how old you are, and frankly, it's not my business. I'm almost 26, and I've been in a few relationships, most of which never lasted more than a few weeks to a few months. Even if it's not your fault, it bums you out, because of what you put into it, and what you get from that breakup isn't tangible. Like many things in life, love is a risk, but you have to take the risk to earn the reward. And sometimes you keep risking, and risking, and risking, but you finally get that payoff, and it's worth all of the heartache you've ever endured.
You're gonna be fine. Don't force love, just let it happen. Make sure it's real. Be real, yourself. The best version of yourself is the person you are every day. Don't go out of your way to impress somebody, because once you settle into a relationship, the honeymoon period eventually ends, and they're going to see that real you anyways. Life, and love, are so unpredictable, but man, if it ain't a great feeling once you meet that special someone. Pick yourself up, and move on from this, and just take it as another lesson. Here's to less heartbreak in the future, and to fast cars!
Galileo Humpkins (aka MC Clap Yo Handz)
> Textured Soy Protein
01/28/2015 at 16:36 |
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Holy shit that's awful.
Ntovorni
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 16:48 |
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Meh. Happens. Embrace being that. I went to Miami with 4 girls who are quite comfortable around me. It was fucking badass.
brianbrannon
> Satoshi "Zipang" Katsura
01/28/2015 at 17:38 |
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Rico
> Ntovorni
01/28/2015 at 18:33 |
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Seriously nothing attracts more girls than hanging out with girls.